These days, everyone says they want an original wedding.
But let’s be honest — in reality?
It often ends up in a race to the same old boho décor, teepees, and flowy dresses we’ve seen a thousand times.

But here’s the thing.
The Screaming Chair exists for one reason:
To remind you that your wedding doesn’t need to look like an Instagram moodboard.
It just needs to look like you.

So here it is —
7 ways to break the mold, ditch the checklist, and build a wedding that truly reflects who you are.
Even if (especially if) Aunt Karen hates it.

7 tips for a wedding that feels like you

1. Be ruthless with all the advice you’ll get

Everyone has an opinion about your wedding.
Family, friends, blogs, stationery designers, your neighbour’s dog…

But here’s the truth:
It’s not their day. It’s yours.

Listen, of course.
But never feel like you have to follow.
If it doesn’t click — toss it.

Make space for your own ideas.
Even (especially) if they don’t fit in any box.

2. Your wedding doesn’t need a military schedule

Sure, having a timeline helps avoid chaos.
But don’t let it cage you in.

You feel like taking a break halfway through the day to grab a drink, just the two of you?
Do it.

A wedding that breathes — one that flows — is often way more beautiful than a perfectly timed machine.